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The Hard Thing About Hard Things vs Never Split the Difference

Which should you read? A side-by-side comparison of The Hard Thing About Hard Things by Ben Horowitz and Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss.

At a glance

The Hard Thing About Hard Things Never Split the Difference
Rating ★ 4.9/5 ★ 4.9/5
Pages 304 288
Reading time ~7.6 h ~7.2 h
Published 2014 2016
Author Ben Horowitz Chris Voss
Category Startups & Entrepreneurship Personal Effectiveness
Publisher HarperBusiness HarperBusiness

Choose The Hard Thing About Hard Things if…

  • You're interested in startups & entrepreneurship.
  • You want the higher-rated book (4.9/5).

Choose Never Split the Difference if…

  • You're interested in personal effectiveness.
  • You prefer a shorter read (~7.2 hours).
  • You want the more recent perspective (2016).

Key takeaways — The Hard Thing About Hard Things

  • Unawain ang pagkakaiba ng Pangulo sa Panahon ng Kapayapaan at Digmaan, na nagpapakita na ang isang krisis ay nangangailangan ng pagbabago mula sa kolaboratibong pagkakasundo tungo sa direktiba at mabilis na paggawa ng desisyon.
  • Pangasiwaan ang Iyong Sariling Pag-iisip habang nasa 'Pakikibaka', na kinikilala na ang kakayahang manatiling kalmado at obhetibo kapag nanganganib ang organisasyon ay isang kritikal na yaman ng isang lider.
  • Bigyang-priyoridad ang Katotohanan sa komunikasyon ng organisasyon, na tinitiyak na ang masasamang balita ay mabilis na nakararating at nauunawaan ng bawat empleyado ang katotohanan sa mga hamon ng estratehiya ng kumpanya.
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Key takeaways — Never Split the Difference

  • Gamitin ang Calibrated Questions (hal., 'Paano ko magagawa iyan?') upang pilitin ang kabilang panig na tumulong sa paglutas ng iyong mga problema habang binibigyan sila ng ilusyon ng kontrol.
  • I-apply ang Labeling upang mapawi ang negatibong emosyon at palakasin ang positibong damdamin, na nagdudulot ng psychological safety para sa kabilang panig na magbahagi ng 'Black Swan' na impormasyon.
  • Matutunan ang sining ng Mirroring upang agad na makabuo ng emosyonal na koneksyon sa iyong katapat, na naghihikayat sa kanila na magpaliwanag at ilahad ang kanilang tunay na mga prayoridad sa estratehiya.
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The verdict

If you want the higher-rated, more acclaimed read, start with The Hard Thing About Hard Things. If you specifically need personal effectiveness, Never Split the Difference is the better fit. Both summaries are free — no signup required.

❓ FAQ

Is The Hard Thing About Hard Things or Never Split the Difference better? +

The Hard Thing About Hard Things has the higher reader rating (4.9/5 vs 4.9/5), but "better" depends on your goal. The Hard Thing About Hard Things focuses on startups & entrepreneurship, while Never Split the Difference focuses on personal effectiveness. See the verdict below.

Which is shorter, The Hard Thing About Hard Things or Never Split the Difference? +

Never Split the Difference is shorter (288 pages, ~7.2 hours) compared to The Hard Thing About Hard Things (304 pages, ~7.6 hours).

Should I read The Hard Thing About Hard Things or Never Split the Difference first? +

If you want the quicker, higher-rated read, start with The Hard Thing About Hard Things. Otherwise read whichever matches your current goal — both summaries are free on BookHubs.